Why Your Social Media Efforts Aren’t Paying Off.
You may have been faithfully trying to use social media to build a following for sometime now and be less than enthused with your results.
With social media, there really is no ‘A’ for effort – you need to do it properly if you hope to build a large, responsive following.
Here are three reasons you may not be getting the desired results out of your efforts.
1. You Aren’t Being Genuine
Many people mistakenly believe that since you are online you can simply pretend to be something you are not. In fact the opposite seems to be true – people seem to be able to tell more quickly online if you are being less than honest.
Don’t get me wrong – many people don’t lie necessarily, they simply don’t tell all of the truth. They hide parts of their real self because they mistakenly believe that the audience will judge them harshly if they new the whole truth.
On the contrary, real people prefer dealing with real people – warts and all!
2. You Aren’t Being Consistent
Here is the way most marketers approach their social media efforts: They do nothing for several weeks and then as though they remembered they had ‘friends’ out there, suddenly they go into a flurry of activity, expecting to pick up where they left off.
You have to remember that you are dealing with real people – real people need to hear from you on a regular, consistent basis. Figure out ahead of time how much time you have to invest and when and then use that time as you had planned.
3. You Put The Cart Before The Horse
Many marketers misunderstand how you use these social sites. They take every opportunity to get their audience in front of a sales page before the audience even gets to know them!
This is kind of like visiting a new friend who is a dentist and having him pitch you on teeth whitening every 5 minutes. Does that make you more or less likely to buy?
Your visitors should really get to know, like and trust you before they ever see a sales page from you. Watch your conversion rates soar!
Conclusion
You have to remember that building an audience with social media is not all about speed and sales. Take the time to build real relationships with real people and the rest will follow.


Dee Stewart
Friday, 29th May 2009 at 8:45 am
Great post, Drew.
I’ve been on Twitter since 2007. The first few months I was just trying to understand the terminology, how to use the service, how to incorporate into my daily life and to determine if the time investment was a great ROI for my blog. I came on and immediately nice people like Chris Brogan @chrisbrogan, Darren Rouse @problogger,Peter Shankman @skydiver and Alejandro Reyes @successfool were helpful in giving me not just guidance, but very open and transparent. I appreciated it and so took from their approach and has gained followers.
Now I must say my aim on Twitter is not to have many followers, but a core following of people who mean a lot to me and I mean a lot to them. I think I have more followers than I am following. Unfortunately that’s because realistically I can keep up with 1500 a little more or less at a time. So the people I follow change. Sometimes I remove following someone who isn’t participating with me and pick up a follower who is. I like to know that I can follow through and connect with someone more so than having the numbers.
You have a great blog.
My twitter handle is @deegospel